What to do?

Alright, been staying up looking for flights and hotels for our trip back to Singapore during Easter.

Our options:
1. Fly by Emirates - total cost for 4 seats = £1,500. BUT hotel stay in Dubai will cost about £500 per night (!!!)
2. Fly by Singapore Airlines - total cost for 4 seats = £2,300. BUT 13 hours straight - can we survive with the 2 monsters (??!!??!)

Please someone tell us what to do?

(I know, I know... its my fault for marrying so far away!)